Sex Talk

A simple way for both partners to have more intense orgasms

Originally published on Psychology Today

Have your ever tried giving your genitals a voice? If your clitoris and vagina had a voice what would they say?  What are their secret desires? If your penis had a voice, what would it say? This is the Gestalt–inspired technique that was used to solve Chloe and Joe’s problem:

Chloe and Joe were coming to my office very frequently.  Chloe often got bronchitis, and soon after, Joe her husband of two years got the infection too.  I noticed that they were often fatigued and depressed.

The question was why?

Were they stressed out at their work (In a previous blog, I describe how emotional stress can lead to a weaker immune system via cortisol secretion)?

A few questions established that their job was not the stressor: Their life at home and in particular, their sex life was the problem.  Even though they were in their mid twenties and had only been married for two years, the couple had stopped having sex. When Joe asked Chloe why she didn’t want him to touch her anymore, she declined to answer.  They were at a dead end.

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